Keep in mind that it’s important to use condoms correctly every time you have sex to effectively reduce your risk. We break down the risks associated with different sex acts-and how to make them safer-below. If/when you decide you want to have sex, it’s important to understand how to effectively reduce your risk. The only way to be 100% safe is to not have partnered sex. That’s because barrier methods help prevent the spread of many sexually transmitted infections (STIs), like HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, HPV and more. The short answer is YES: barrier methods like condoms are super important for safer sex, even if there’s no chance of pregnancy. It’s wonderful that you’re thinking ahead about how to have safer sex, and reaching out to get the information you need. Great question! Getting accurate, comprehensive sex education can be really hard-especially for people who identify as LGBTQ. How exactly am I supposed to have safe sex as a gay guy? Is it as important to use condoms since obviously no one can get pregnant?